Following my crazy date with The Activist on Wednesday I reconnected with East Coast. I was glad and relieved that I wouldn't have to juggle two girls at once. I don't know if I'm ready for that, or if I'd ever want to handle that sort of thing. I'm looking for something serious, so why jeopardize anything? I've said this before.
Anyway, we still had our date set up for Friday night - dinner then drinks with her friends who were visiting - but she suggested a movie night for that evening. I rebutted, I had a basketball game later on, so I suggested a hike up the mountain instead.
29/10/2011
Entry Twelve.
Ménage à trois + One
A few updates tonight, first one being a recap of my 8th date off of the Website.
I had my first date with The Activist on Wednesday. Let's talk a little pregame. She messaged me first (Instant Message to be precise), we were matched up by OkCupid with the highest possible value (99%), she wanted to be a civil rights lawyer and was pretty attractive. At this point I was in between my second and third date with East Coast, but I was really looking forward to this date.
Scorecard after the jump;
I had my first date with The Activist on Wednesday. Let's talk a little pregame. She messaged me first (Instant Message to be precise), we were matched up by OkCupid with the highest possible value (99%), she wanted to be a civil rights lawyer and was pretty attractive. At this point I was in between my second and third date with East Coast, but I was really looking forward to this date.
Scorecard after the jump;
25/10/2011
Update
Quick update tonight.
Ok so, Scorecard added at top of page now has a new entry. A super attractive girl, who according to the website, I'm a 99% match with, messaged me on Sunday night. We talked for awhile and scheduled a first date for tomorrow (Wednesday) night.
Also received another message from a potentially good match. That puts me up to 5 girls who I'm currently exchanging messages with. They aren't all promising - I have plans to make plans with one a week or so from now, another is 150km away in Trois-Rivers, and a third sort-of half rebutted my attempt at broaching the subject of a date. Probably a good thing, this week is hectic with me trying to juggle EC and this new girl + Halloween plans this weekend.
Finally, the third date with EC keeps getting postponed. As of now we have dinner plans on Friday and potentially meeting up with some of her friends after - we'll see how I play it depending on how my date tomorrow goes and if it doesn't get postponed again.
Have a good night folks,
Ok so, Scorecard added at top of page now has a new entry. A super attractive girl, who according to the website, I'm a 99% match with, messaged me on Sunday night. We talked for awhile and scheduled a first date for tomorrow (Wednesday) night.
Also received another message from a potentially good match. That puts me up to 5 girls who I'm currently exchanging messages with. They aren't all promising - I have plans to make plans with one a week or so from now, another is 150km away in Trois-Rivers, and a third sort-of half rebutted my attempt at broaching the subject of a date. Probably a good thing, this week is hectic with me trying to juggle EC and this new girl + Halloween plans this weekend.
Finally, the third date with EC keeps getting postponed. As of now we have dinner plans on Friday and potentially meeting up with some of her friends after - we'll see how I play it depending on how my date tomorrow goes and if it doesn't get postponed again.
Have a good night folks,
Incoming Message
On second thought heels and the mountain don't seem quite so compatible."
90% Match 82% Friend 8% Enemy
23/10/2011
Update
Post-modern sex
I was perusing the Internets, as I often do, and I came across another blog like mine. The author is a women in Philadelphia, who like me, created a profile when she moved to her new city. It seems like she was successful in finding someone, the last update was from July and the last few updates she posted described the dates she'd been on with a particularly promising gentlemen. Must have worked out. Good for her, it gives me hope to see it work for someone else, especially someone who seems to have the same mindset as me about it. More after the jump.
22/10/2011
Entry Eleven.
A Mad Woman II
UPDATED 2011-10-23 T21:38
Evening readers. I don't usually do this, but I'm bored, and I'm in on a Saturday night, which is depressing me. Last post I described my first date with the East Coaster (EC for short?), and mentioned that we had made plans for a second date. Even though I'm still seeing this girl I've decided to write about the second date since I had so much feedback from that post (a whole 4 comments!).
I've been pretty active on the site lately as well. There are 3 or 4 girls who I'm currently exchanging messages with, which will hopefully turn into at least one date in the near future. I'm finding it harder and harder to find the motivation to message new people, but every once in awhile I come across an interesting profile - but they're starting to become fewer and farther between. I'd rather meet people in real life, but I still don't have a large social group here, at it's mainly confined to work colleagues - which I've stated already I want to avoid.
Anyway, on to the more interesting aspect of this evening's update; "A Mad Woman II," after the jump.
Evening readers. I don't usually do this, but I'm bored, and I'm in on a Saturday night, which is depressing me. Last post I described my first date with the East Coaster (EC for short?), and mentioned that we had made plans for a second date. Even though I'm still seeing this girl I've decided to write about the second date since I had so much feedback from that post (a whole 4 comments!).
I've been pretty active on the site lately as well. There are 3 or 4 girls who I'm currently exchanging messages with, which will hopefully turn into at least one date in the near future. I'm finding it harder and harder to find the motivation to message new people, but every once in awhile I come across an interesting profile - but they're starting to become fewer and farther between. I'd rather meet people in real life, but I still don't have a large social group here, at it's mainly confined to work colleagues - which I've stated already I want to avoid.
Anyway, on to the more interesting aspect of this evening's update; "A Mad Woman II," after the jump.
17/10/2011
Entry Ten.
A Mad Woman
In the dying days of my last e-fling I received a particularly interesting, though brief, message. Don't get me wrong, over the duration of the last, whatever you want to call it, I received a couple of messages, but this one stood out because of the sender - she was actually attractive. Don't get me wrong again, the other girls weren't downright ugly - let us just say, not my type.
At first I didn't reply because I was too busy trying to make something work with the G Girl, and there was no reason to jeopardize it by fooling around and going on other dates. I'm looking for something serious, and I like to think I'm a pretty stand up guy - which probably makes this blog that much less interesting - but it means I'm not going to try and juggle "relationships". Maybe I'll become a little more slutty and a little less honorable in the future for the sake of my readers (hah).
Anyway, once things ended with the G Girl, there was no reason not to respond and see where things went;
At first I didn't reply because I was too busy trying to make something work with the G Girl, and there was no reason to jeopardize it by fooling around and going on other dates. I'm looking for something serious, and I like to think I'm a pretty stand up guy - which probably makes this blog that much less interesting - but it means I'm not going to try and juggle "relationships". Maybe I'll become a little more slutty and a little less honorable in the future for the sake of my readers (hah).
Anyway, once things ended with the G Girl, there was no reason not to respond and see where things went;
Entry Nine.
Juggling a Career and a Personal Life
This post is going to be used to wrap up my last "online relationship". Recapping where I left off with my last entry, I had gone out for coffee with the Gamer Girl from Ontario. It went well, and we made plans to meet up again.
Right from the get go, there were problems. She worked in a very fast paced industry, which apparently required a large time commitment. Because of this, our second date would have to wait a whole week, until the next Saturday, when we planned a redo of the first date we never had...
Right from the get go, there were problems. She worked in a very fast paced industry, which apparently required a large time commitment. Because of this, our second date would have to wait a whole week, until the next Saturday, when we planned a redo of the first date we never had...
16/10/2011
Update
Hello loyal readers (hah). It's been awhile since my last update, but I don't like writing about girls I'm currently seeing, which had been the case. Anything that gets too serious, I'm not to comfortable writing about on the internet. Things with the gamer girl didn't work out, at least for now, but that's all I'm really going to say at this point, though I may write something up later.
I have another date tonight, with a girl from the east coast (of Canada). She messaged me while I was still in limbo with the last girl, but I messaged her back and we got to talking pretty quickly. She's brand spanking new to the website, and I believe this to be her first meeting off of it.
It's starting to get cold here, and I've been warned it's going to get worse then I can imagine come winter. Maybe the weather will inspire something between this evening's guest and myself.
I shall report back, until then, happy hunting.
I have another date tonight, with a girl from the east coast (of Canada). She messaged me while I was still in limbo with the last girl, but I messaged her back and we got to talking pretty quickly. She's brand spanking new to the website, and I believe this to be her first meeting off of it.
It's starting to get cold here, and I've been warned it's going to get worse then I can imagine come winter. Maybe the weather will inspire something between this evening's guest and myself.
I shall report back, until then, happy hunting.
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